The approach is rather holistic, and involves trial and error as the process. I suppose more experienced designers like JR, Scott Sehlin, CurtC, PWR RYD, and myself have a bit more of a streamlined process just because we’ve had considerable practice. Knowing your goals beforehand are important. I know it comes down to sound preferences too, but try to keep it as simple as possible without leaving some glaring problem on the table- alstwhile keeping the impedance relatively benign.
I used to fire off an email to JeffB when I had thought I’d hit a wall in the process. He’d make a suggestion or 2, and then a little more work later I’d have it ready to try as a circuit.
We’ve all been in the position you are in when it seems to become difficult. Something doesn’t work- try it a different way. I have still had simulations where I started over for a 2nd attempt, and compared the new work to the previous.
More often than not, once offset and placement is decided or derived-
I dial in the woofer coil and cap quickly, maybe add a resistor for knee adjustment, targets used if i feel like it, then set level on the tweeter, and throw a similar circuit at it for approximation purposes. There was something Jeff used to say about being able to quickly throw 5-6 parts at a 6.5-7” 2way design and be close to good for 90% of the combinations minus the blemishes some have. For the most part, this is true in my experience. There is a lot of knowing why and what to use, but it’s intuitively simple with practice. These 6 parts are the majority of the design work.
The blending however is where the black art comes into play and without seeing the process of someone else, it can feel intimidating to the newer hobbyist. For example, Chuck has said in the past he’d like to watch me approach a design and see what I do and when. It’s beneficial to have a visual, and I was lucky enough to get to see JeffB do just this almost 20 years ago now. It helped me immensely.
Just try to streamline your attempts, and after an hour or 2, put it down and come back to it. I do this all the time. Usually 2-3 hrs gets me something workable, but this is usually time spent in setup too.
Keep at it, you’ll get there!